Monday, July 11, 2011
Relationship Advice: Stop Listening To Your Girlfriends!
Okay ladies! We've all been guilty of it.... Talking about our relationship problems with our girlfriends! Does it help? Well, it can if you're talking to a woman that has a man and is in a healthy solid relationship... She's most likely to give you some advice that will actually help. And it'll probably sound a little something like this: "Well you know he may just be under a lot of pressure right now, give him some time to cool off and I'm sure he'll come around. Just keep going on about your business and stay in prayer. You guys are made for each other." Or.... You can have a chat with your girlfriend that is STILL trying to get a man and is bitter about all of her failed relationships. That conversation will probably go a little something like this: "Ugh uh girl! No he didn't! If I were you I would go off on him girl! You need to let him know how you feel! See, that's why I hate men!" Okay, she might not say she hates men... but you know what I'm talking about....
Now, why do you think the first woman you talked to has such a healthy relationship and the second woman just can't seem to keep a man? Woman number 1 seems to know something about men that woman number 2 has no clue about! Men are not bad! I just think that they can be completely mis-understood. I'm sure alot of my male readers would agree. :)
I was just reading an article written by Bob Grant, Licensed Professional Counselor, relationship coach for 16 years and author of "The Woman Men Adore...And Never Want To Leave". The article is called "How to captivate a man, Make him fall in love with you-- And give you the world." It is so good! One part really stood out to me...
"The Woman Men Adore...And Never Want To Leave"